The people around you influence your life. Therefore, you should pay attention to those with whom you communicate every day if you want your life to be happy. Each person can inspire you and increase your self-esteem or provoke the appearance of complexes and insecurities. You can look at your surroundings and identify the types of toxic people who bring negativity and sadness into your life. Try to reduce the communication time, take it off or avoid it altogether.
You can meet toxic people everywhere, so learn to see toxicity at the beginning of your relationship to avoid conflict and stress in your future.
Types of toxic people.
People who only see the black side and make your life dull and sad. Even if you are the funniest person in the world, constant communication with pessimists will change your life for the worse. You can become infected with negativity and pessimism as a dangerous virus, and your life will begin to crumble.
These are people who are constantly unhappy with what they have. They think constantly that the world is unfair to them. These are people who do not notice happy moments and constantly envy the success of others. At the same time, they devalue the achievements of others and believe that these people received everything undeservedly. Also, envious people do not notice that most often they have more than those whom they envy. But, their focus is distorted, and they cannot value themselves and other people around them.
These are people who achieve their goals using people. Their game makes people do what the manipulator wants. At the same time, you do not experience great pleasure from fulfilling the desires of these people. As a rule, manipulators use your weak points and put pressure on them to get what they want. They are not interested in your opinion and feelings. Manipulators can use blackmail, tears, screams, their illnesses. They do not hesitate to lie and achieve their goal at any cost.
Someone who tends to dramatize everything.
These people can create a problem out of nothing. They complicate everything and distort reality. They can remember all the details of your quarrel and remember your words. At the same time, the meaning of your words may be radically different from what they came up with. They are constantly looking for problems and get satisfaction only after they make others feel negative feelings. Their distorted perception of reality and their ability to complicate things are irritating to those around them.
These are the people who keep you in constant emotional stress. They see only flaws and try to express their opinion, although no one asks them. At the same time, they know how to devalue and turn all your achievements into disadvantages. Therefore, if you want to maintain your self-esteem, you must learn to ignore critics and not believe their words.
These people are sure that everyone should fulfill their desires. They are oblivious to your desires and demand your full attention. And the constant and uncontrollable moods make you feel uncomfortable. A capricious person finds a reason for disappointment and transfers all his negative emotions to you, and this makes your life unbearable. Some people try to understand such people and hope that they will change or understand their mistakes. These people don’t change, so don’t waste your time on them.
These are people who do not want to take responsibility for their lives. They believe that everyone around them is to blame for their unhappiness. They know how to complain professionally. At the same time, if the first meetings with such people can cause sympathy, but with a time constant complaints begin to irritate. At the same time, such people believe that everyone should help them and solve their problems. If you refuse to do this, they turn into an aggressor and begin to blame you for all their troubles. The victim loves to suffer and wants you, too, to plunge with her into her abyss.
The relationship with such people is saturated with loneliness. They love to be admired and live only in their interests. They are not interested in your life and feelings. They only talk about themselves and what they are. If you want to continue a relationship with such a person, you should be prepared that you are only used to build self-confidence. If you have a desire to share your experiences, you will be ignored.
These people value everyone and everything. They give their verdict on any occasion even no one listens to their opinions. They know everything about everyone. Such people try to give you advice on any issue. They are not embarrassed by the fact that you are not interested in their opinion, they are sure that you cannot cope without their advice. These people do not know how to appreciate you and are constantly looking for what you can be condemned. If you are true to your principles and do not listen to these people, they will lose interest in you and leave you alone.
People who constantly try to make fun of your feelings or words. At the same time, they believe that their words are an innocent joke and are sincerely surprised when they are offended. As a rule, their jokes are caustic and uttered in the company of other people. Thus, the joker tries to humiliate you and describes it as a sense of humor.
All people are different, but we can choose with whom to communicate. Therefore, surround yourself with those people who fill your life with joy and love. Of course, sometimes bad things happen, and your friends may share negative emotions and experiences with you. But if it happens every day, then it’s an unhealthy relationship. Don’t let yourself be used. The best way to get rid of toxic people is emotional withdrawal. Toxic people want to elicit an emotional response. If you do not participate in their actions, they will not get what they want and will start looking for someone another. Establish a distance between you and do not give your energy to others.